Write Like Nobody’s Watching: Finding Joy in Your Words Again
Remember the first time you picked up a pen, grabbed a notebook, and decided you were going to write your story? Maybe you were ten years old, spinning dramatic plots about pirate treasure or magical forests that fit somewhere between your math homework and snack time. Maybe you made your stuffed animals act out the epic play you'd just scribbled down in purple ink. Back then, writing wasn’t about getting it right—it was about unleashing your imagination.
For so many of us, writing started as productive play. It wasn’t about hitting word counts or crafting a perfect scene. It was pure joy. You wrote because creating those worlds made you feel alive. Somewhere along the way, though, life creeps in—with deadlines, feedback, and that pesky inner critic whispering, “Is this even good enough?” Joy becomes another blank page staring back at you. Writing starts to feel like a chore.
But here’s the thing—you can get that feeling back. That uninhibited, wildly creative, no-pressure way of writing lives inside you. You just need to invite it to the party again.
Reconnect With Your Inner Child
Think back to how you wrote as a kid. You didn’t sit down and agonize over plot arcs or whether your dialogue was believable enough. You wrote because you wanted to. It wasn’t about the output—it was about the act of creating.
To reconnect, try revisiting your younger self’s approach. What delighted you back then? Experiment with silly rhymes, wild twists, or writing something purely for fun. Need a nudge? Rewrite a classic fairytale with modern details (like adding Wi-Fi to Cinderella’s castle). Creativity feeds itself, and playful writing helps you push aside perfection for laughter and discovery.
Write for Yourself First
Here’s a little secret—it doesn’t matter if anyone else sees what you write. Kids know this instinctively. They don’t scribble stories in their journals thinking about an audience. They write because they want to turn their thoughts into something magical.
Give yourself permission to write without sharing. No one else has to read this. Draft a letter to yourself. Write a short scene about the most ridiculous “what if?” scenario you can think of. Jot down a memory that doesn’t need to be turned into anything. Writing privately can free you from overthinking and will remind you that the most important person to please is the one holding the pen.
See Writing as Productive Play
Somewhere along the line, adults forgot the magic of playing. Good news—writing is play. It’s productive play that doesn’t follow the rules and gets messy in all the best ways.
One way to inject this sense of play into your process is through playful exercises. Spend five minutes brainstorming how two items in your room could become the start of a story. (What if your couch could talk? What if your bookcase was secretly a portal?) Write a sentence that breaks every “correct” rule of grammar you’ve learned. Or fill a page with the most absurd ideas you can possibly imagine.
These exercises aren’t just fun—they loosen up your creative muscles, reminding you that writing isn’t about being right, it’s about exploration.
Find Everyday Inspiration
Remember how, as a kid, a stick could be a sword and a patch of grass was transformed into a secret hideout? Inspiration was everywhere. And it still is—you just have to look for it.
Spend a little time observing the world like you used to when you were young. Watch how strangers interact at the coffee shop and imagine their backstories. Take a walk, and picture an adventurous alternate timeline for your route (Did that alley used to house spies? Was this trail the setting for an ancient duel?). The more you see the world as full of stories, the more they’ll find you.
Try setting a goal to write about something small every day—a piece of dialogue you overheard, the glint of sunlight off a window, or the way your dog tilts its head. These moments are the seeds for something bigger, eventually growing into full plots or characters.
Actionable Steps to Rekindle Your Joy
If you’re ready to feel that magic again, here are a few simple steps to reignite your love for storytelling:
Write Like Nobody’s Watching: Shut off your inner critic. No agendas, no pressure. Set a timer for 10 minutes and just play.
Revisit Childhood Stories: Dig out an old story you wrote as a kid and rewrite it with your current experience. What feels the same, and what’s different?
Set Low-Stakes Prompts: Create journals where you tackle light prompts like, “Write about your day from your pet’s point of view,” or, “What’s the life story of a paperclip?” (You might just find that they turn into something profound!)
Collaborate with Kids: Got little ones in your life? Play story games with them (like building a story one sentence at a time!) to tap into their endless imagination.
Your Creative Journey Starts Here
Writing isn’t just about the final product. It’s about you—your ideas, your spark, your joy. And the best way to rediscover that joy is by letting go of the expectations and remembering why you started.
The StoryCore Formula is here to help you do just that. Packed with exercises, tools, and inspiration, it’s designed to make storytelling feel personal, fun, and endlessly creative. Whether you dream of publishing or just want to reclaim that playful writer within, we’re here to guide you.
What are you waiting for? Grab a pen, scribble that first word, and write like nobody’s watching. The joy is waiting—you just need to follow it.